Friday, November 21, 2014

Caring Creatively

(This is our November post at No Hands But Ours!)

November is National Adoption Month. Pretty cool, uh? You would think that this is primarily a "Christian holiday" but I've been thrilled to see the secular media highlighting adoption & foster care and even  adoption ministries throughout the month. (See Huffington Post article HERE)

But adoption is just one, albeit amazing, facet of God's call to care for the orphan (James 1:27). I am daily over whelmed at the beauty of  God's heart through adoption. He adopted me and I was chosen to adopt my son--it STILL boggles my mind. But adoption wasn't God's first plan. It's an unbelievably perfect back-up but it is only in response to our screw up in the Garden.(Way to go us) Still, if our Heavenly Father is going to mention caring for'orphans' and 'the fatherless' forty-one times in the Old Testament alone, I have to believe it is a subject very dear to the Lord's heart. Which means caring for His children, even beyond adoption, should be very dear to mine.  (If you want to read a book that will rock your world on this concept, check out Orphan Justice by Johnny Carr.

The 30DayAdoptionChallenge (posted HERE) got me thinking about the creative ways my circle of friends and friends once & twice removed are caring for the orphan. It's varied and awe inspiring and creative and personally challenging. And they all answer the question: "What would happen if I could use the talent God gave me and the time I have available?"

  • A photographer friend of mine donates her time & passion to photograph the foster children during their week at Royal Family Kids Camp. Each child is provided personal 5x7s, wallet sized and 4x6s of their precious faces, each lovingly framed, wrapped, prayed over and presented with hands of love. For many this is the first and only photograph they've ever had of themselves. It is a tangible representation of their Heavenly Father's love for them--I created you; I see you; you are beautiful; you are loved. One woman who loves to photograph gives her skill and offers her heart to care for these beauties when no one else can or will. (Col 2:23-24)
  • Another dear friend has a passionate calling for a very specific genetic special need. Only 1 in 15,000 births results in this specific condition, and my friend heard about one boy in an orphanage in China that has it and needs specialized formula to survive. She has rearranged her family budget to purchase the (very expensive) formula then coordinates with adoption agencies across the nation sending families to that orphanage to pick up their own children. Would you be willing to bring the formula to this sweet boy? I'll send you the cans. This is who you contact. Send the empty cans back to me and I'll find more families who are going. This boy can't live without it.  Can you imagine the amount of coordination this takes? Hundreds of cans of formula have arrived for this ONE sweet boy, each declaring: you are SO very loved and wanted that scores of people you have never met are willing to go to the ends of the earth to make sure you are safe until your forever family finds you. Jesus loves you EVEN MORE than that! THAT is the gospel in action. One homeschooling mom of six caring for the orphan. (Matthew 18:12)
  • A group of grandmas at my church get together every year and make fleece blankets for foster kids in the county. As they adjust their glasses and warm up their hands, they pray over each child that will be wrapped in God's arms through that blanket. And as they embroider scripture into the corners they are offering Truth---you are worthy of Love, sweet heart; I have a plan and purpose for you; run to Me and I'll hold you and give you a future. Grandmas loving on God's kids like they were their own. (Is 61:3)
  • A friend's church distributes empty baby bottles to their congregation and asks them to fill it with change from their pockets to support the local crisis pregnancy center. Seems simple enough right? Yes! And with each baby bottle full of pennies they are proclaiming: You and your child are valued; your past does not matter because ours doesn't either; God's future is full of hope; He is our husband and we'll be that for you and your precious baby. You will not be a widow, your child will not be an orphan. What do you need? We are here.  One Midwest church and bottles full of change. (Psalm 68:5)
  • A local couple passionate about domestic foster adoption arranges Adoption Info Nights at area churches. They bring their story, the resources they are aware of and a plate of cookies then ask the Holy Spirit to move. They don't claim to be adoption experts, but they can share the need and how they didn't think God could use them and then He did and it was hard, but it is awesome and you should step out in faith too. I love it! You don't have to be a preacher to testify. I betchya the Holy Spirit's favorite movement is through a story and a plate of cookies. (2 Tim 4:2)
  • A stay-at-home mom friend got her real estate license to make some occasional extra cash for her family. She also wanted a way to give towards adoption & foster care so she writes into her contracts that a portion of her commission is dedicated to orphan care. Each family that buys/sells a house with her is automatically giving to an agency that cares for foster & orphaned children. Complete strangers are going to care for God's children whether they want to or not. It's kinda brilliant!  (Deut 24:19)
These are just a few creative cares that are happening in my little neck of the woods. I'm sure there are a gazillion different & unique ways to care for God's most vulnerable. It's fun to think about when the excuses are taken away...money, time, location, support are all non issues. The possibilities are endless!  How creative can you get?  What can you do? What would happen if you used the talent God gave you and the time available to you?? (Phil 2:13).  Miracles!

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Birthday Part 2

These are too cute not to share...his special day just kept getting better! Who knew the clapping birthday waiters at Red Robin would be the icing on his cake??  I LOVE celebrating this boy of mine!





Happy 4th Birthday Isaac!!

My little boy is FOUR years old. How did that happen??


How did THIS waif of a child in pink bloomers...
Isaac age 9 months
 Become this lively, handsome, creative, stubborn, tender, funny & crazy kid of mine??

Isaac, age 4 years


I am in awe of how the Lord created him and how much he has grown since I've known him. He's an observer and has a wicked-good memory. He takes time to figure things out and finds joy in the smallest of things. His heart is so very sensitive to people and I pray towards the Lord. He frequently reaches out to lay hands on people and pray for them (Thankfully, not in Target recently), and he is tender towards his baby cousin, looking out for him. I think there is a lot of leadership potential stored up in my boy and I am so very curious how the Lord is going to use Isaac's voice when his words finally come. Oh man, does he have something to say! (He just started saying "I love you"!!)  He is learning to do 'boy things' like playing football and wrestling with his cousins....seems belching is super funny. *eye roll* He walks besides me now most of the time and you can see the pride on his face beaming "I'm a big boy and that's my mom and we're doin' stuff together!." When I do pick him up he still wriggles his lower body like a salmon swimming up stream and I kinda hope that never changes. (Well, maybe when he is 16. That won't be cool for either of us).  I know his birth mom is thinking of him today and I pray specifically that she is comforted and maybe even receives a heart-whisper of how happy & healthy and stinking funny he is. I am so very blessed to be the momma that gets to wake up the birthday boy like this:

Happy Birthday, Isaac!
We celebrate you!

Here are a few photos from his family birthday party ala Super Grover 2.0. :)



It really doesn't get any better than Grover & Elmo in our house.


Playing with Auntie Jessie's glasses

The big cousins playing cookie toss
Is that Noah & Elli or Cookie & Bert?
I just can't tell.

Cousins Magdalene & Vaughn being silly

Momma & Isaac's turn

Bunch of crazy cousins

The no-nap melt

Auntie Jessie & Baby Max!

Showing off his new toy


Taking his new football VERY seriously

He was singing Happy Birthday to himself!  

His new post tonsillectomy fav...ice cream bars. 
A giant piano!

Making music WHILE dancing = the perfect gift!

Friday, November 14, 2014

Cuzzie Love

Since the hospitalization, I've desperately needed to get out of Dodge, so we called up Isaac's auntie and kidnapped her & the baby for a day trip over the mountains. It was a PERFECT crisp fall day. Seriously perfect. The boys were excellent road trippers and the ladies got to talk our brains out and do a little shopping. Somewhat unexpectedly, the trip ended up being a honest cuzzie-love-fest.  Just look at these two handsome boys!  Isaac made sure Max was well protected and always had his arm wrapped around him.  It was TOO cute for words. 

Roadtrippin!
BEE-U-T-FULL

Handsome lunch dates
(Note, Isaac making sure Max doesn't go anywhere)


Max: Whatchya doing cuz?

Isaac: Well, you gotta smile cuz our moms are both taking pictures of us like crazy animals...that shoot photos

Then, you grab a leaf and let it drop in the wind

Did you see that? Amazing, uh?

Now, I kiss your fuzzy head.

Can't keep their eyes off each other even during a selfie

I gotchya man, it's all good

Cuzzie love

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Bamboo Update: Find My Family

     I am so very happy to report that 13 of the original 15 Bamboo children have found their forever families. Nearly all are in their new homes and adjusting to the overwhelming love available to them by their parents & siblings...ADORE is not a strong enough word! And they are thriving; what some medical care, a little protein and a lot of love will do for a child. :)  
     China has continued the release of children with Down syndrome to multiple international adoption agencies. I love watching the photos of these beautiful sweethearts come HOME and the joy that enters each family as their chromosomally enhanced child becomes a part of their lives. I am thankful to the government agencies 'allowing' children with Down syndrome to be adoptable. I pray that their hearts are touched by the flood of people from America and beyond asking to parent these amazing kids. 

     This sweet boy is still waiting and he NEEDS a new forever. 

"Simeon", now age 2, Down syndrome

"Simeon" enjoys listening to music & playing with toys. He kicks his cushion when there is music playing and laughs when teased. "Simeon" enjoys sitting and watching the other children play. He also enjoys being cuddled. 


Isn't he precious??  I know he would absolutely thrive with a loving home and a little bit of therapy.  If you or someone you  know (please forward this anyone you think may be interested!) would like more information regarding this cutie patootie, please call 1-877-64-ADOPT or visit bethany.org/internationaladoption  (This little guy is also on the agency Shared List making him available to any agency should you be established somewhere other than Bethany Christian Services).  
I believe "Simeon"'s family already has a heart for their child they've never met. Please join me in praying that they are able to step out in faith to bring their son HOME soon.