Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Happy Harvest!

We have ALL benefited from the rich blessing
He brought to us blessing upon blessing heaped upon us."
John 1:16 TLB
 
Happy Harvest!! 
Fall 2012
 
 
A few "candid" (code for: I can't get my kid to look at the camera without a string in his mouth) shots from the church Harvest Party:
My little panda!
(If it wasn't for the string, I don't know if he would have tolerated my insistence on the panda suit!)

Playing in the big toys
 
Part of Momma's costume that didn't happen...
 

Monday, October 22, 2012

Ten Weeks (plus one day) Together

     It's been a good week...an exciting week, really.  We survived our first two 8-hour days at Kollege/work. Isaac seems to play well there and he is certainly well liked. All the talking toddlers in his room welcome him with a chorus of "Hi Isaac!!" when we arrive; the others run/crawl to tackle him.  :)  The eight hour days are certainly less stressful for me at work as I don't feel rushed into squeezing all my responsibilities into 3 or 4 hour chunks.  And the Lord has blessed our short time together in the evenings with QUALITY time of laughter and wrestling on the floor and reading our Bible stories together. 

     We also had our first Physical Therapy, Cognitive Therapy, & Speech Therapy appointments this week. All three therapists were SUPER impressed with how far Isaac has come even since his initial evaluation 3 weeks ago.  His Speech Therapist crossed off three of Isaac's communication goals in the first 5minutes she was here! Because he is doing so well, I anticipate that the physical & occupational therapy will most likely be extended to just once or twice per month so we can focus on speech therapy. Isaac's Cognitive Therapist (special ed teacher) will be joining him at Kollege once per week to assess how he is interacting with other kids and other social skills.  I'm thankful that his Kollege teachers are eager to host Isaac's therapy friends.
     On the communication front, Isaac continues to amaze with his ability to pick up new signs. His current favorite is 'monkey'. I'm not sure if it is because it is a good excuse to scratch his armpit in public or because his mother "oooo-ah-ah-ah"'s like a monkey when he does it...really not sure who has trained who on that one!  Here is what is in his arsenal thus far:
  • Eat
  • Milk
  • More
  • Please
  • All Done
  • Applesauce (trademark pending)
  • Banana
  • Bath
  • Sleep
  • Bye-Bye
  • Book
  • Music
  • Go
  • Pig
  • Dog
  • Monkey
What's exciting is that he is starting to form little sentences: "More banana please",  "Music all done", "More monkey"  It just thrills my heart to know that his hands are able to tell me what's going on in that little noggin of his. My nightly prayer for the Lord to open up the lines of communication is being faithfully answered. I'll be particularly excited when I see his hands say "Oh Mother dearest, why don't you put your feet up while I empty the dishwasher".  (Am I setting my expectations too high? Do sons ever say that?!)


Des & Ange, 10 & 6 weeks old.
(How cute are we?!)
 The SUPER exciting event of the week was the arrival of Auntie Ange & Cousin Xander from Minnesota. This was the first visit for them both and Xander's first plane flight. What a treat to have them both!  Because Ange & I have been BFFs since the womb (fetal friends!) and our mothers grew up
together, I've always wanted our children (daughters really) to grow up loving another too. When I was matched with Isaac just 29 days before Xander was born I was THRILLED.  We would raise our sons together!  "Together" was loosely abided by this weekend as it took all 5 days to get the boys on the same nap schedule; Ange & I spent a lot of time passing each other in the hallway---one putting a boy down, the other getting a boy up.  :)  That, and Isaac hasn't quite mastered the skill of "gentle touching". *sigh*  I want him to keep his ninja skills just not his cousins' faces.  We'll get there...until then there was quite the dance to keep the boys apart. One up, one down, legs & pillows & pumpkins strategically placed between them and quick belly slides across the toy-laden floor to grab a set of hands (ahem, Isaac's) before they grabbed a handful of hair (Xander's).  While there is 375 days between them, Xander (the younger of the two) already has nearly 5 pounds on Isaac...he'll have his payback someday!
Storey time with Auntie Ange

Auntie Ange & Isaac!

Isaac wins again...
 
The big one in the little seat; the little one in the big seat.



57 pictures later we get one with both boys facing forward.

PUMPKINS!!!!

One of these boys was more excited to be on a giant pile of cold gourds than the other one was.


A panda & a dragon...an ode to China
(They will thank/hate us for this later)

Again...they will thank/hate us later

Ahh, geez...Isaac!

Twins!
Best friends & sons!!!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Nine Weeks Together


     Nine weeks of being a family under our Heavenly Father's banner of Love. I know it keep saying it...but I still just can't believe it happened!  I am this precious child's forever mommy! EVERYDAY I get to see him, and love him, and hold him, and whisper how precious he is. How did this all happen?! The miracle of adoption is just so awesome. The pain of The Wait has been wiped away by the absolute joy that Isaac is to me and the future that Hope will bring. 
How can you not get goosebumps just looking at this little one?
 
     THE super exciting event of the week was the "reveal" of photos that our dear friend Cassandra of Cassandra Hamilton Photography took of Isaac & I last week. She had messaged me that she would post them sometime on Thursday. I have to admit, I refreshed her web page every 37seconds all morning just hoping that I would be able to see them before I went to work at noon. God bless 11:32am!  Cassandra captured every emotion I have for my son. He is my joy and fulfilled promise; he is our family laughter and reminder of God's perfect plan of redemption and adoption. Oh how I love this child! (And how much more our Father loves us!!) Cassandra also wrote a lovely blog to help tell our story.  You can link HERE  or go to http://www.cassandrahamiltonphotography.com/blog/adoption-love/ to see the full post.  Cassandra did all the work, so I'm not posting any other photos this week.  :)  Enjoy!!

Friday, October 12, 2012

Two Month Update--An Interview With Isaac

Happy Family Day, Isaac! 
We've been a family for TWO WHOLE months.

What have you been up to in the last month?
     Well, I've gotten to go see a lot of doctors and therapists. Some of the waiting rooms are better than others. I like the ones with the fun toys. The ones with the hardwood floors and old books aren't very much fun at all. Some of my therapy friends come to my house now, so I can play with my own toys while they are talking with Momma. They watch me eat and help me play with special toys in their bags. Momma already helps me with my muscles, but apparently there is a special therapy friend that is coming to help me exercise better and make me strong like my cousins.
 
How's your walking & crawling coming along?
    I am SO close to walking down the hallway by myself!  So close. I can walk in the family room and around the couch without touching. And I'm a super fast crawler now too! When Momma needs to play on her computer for work she puts me in the room down the hallway and then runs to her office. She thinks she smart but I can get to her now in less than 45seconds! The joke is on her, cuz no one can get anything done in 45seconds. Sometimes if I'm feeling spicy, I crawl super quiet and sneak up under her legs under her desk. Ah-ha! Gotchya, Mom! 
 
Any new foods you've become fond of?  How about foods you don't like?
     Applesauce!!  That stuff is AWESOME. (But only the chunky stuff from Trader Joe's, NOT the cheap thin stuff from the other stores.) I can even sign for it when I want it. Although Momma says putting the back of my hand to my cheek and waving my fingers not a real sign. I say, hey...every time I do it, you give me applesauce, so it's a sign; everybody wins!  I have yet to figure out why you people insist on putting cheese in or on noodles. This makes no sense to me. Cheese. Yes.  Noodles. Yes.  Cheese & noodles. No thanks. And this obsession with eating beans...? One of these days Momma is going to figure out, I'm just going to spit it out again. Why do you keep giving them to me?! Come to think of it, I'm not a big fan of chocolate chip cookies either.  Momma says if I turn down apple pie she is going to have to make sure we got the right paperwork when I became an American citizen, but I'm not sure what that means.

Have you found any new favorite toys or games?
     I'm totally in love with the musical panda my cousin Magdalene gave me. I play with that everyday. My fun new game right now is putting my panda under Momma's chin, pushing the button two times to make it sing "London Bridges" and then making Momma sing "Itsy Bitsy Spider" with her hands. She says it makes her brain think in Danish, but I think it's a genious system that frees up her hands AND there is extra musical accompaniment to my favorite song. I'm going to have the process patented. Shoving all the toys under the couch is super fun, so is playing in Momma's purse and putting her keys in with the ketchup. (Don't tell, but it was me that hid her keys the day she had to go back to work!)

Your mom hasn't done well with you going to daycare. How do you feel about it?
      Daycare? Oh, you mean Knowledge Kollege? It's pretty cool. I'm still getting used to it, but I get to play with other kids and we chase each other around the little tables. The bigger kids say they are slowing down for me to get them, but we ALL know I could catch them if I wanted to. There is a big mirror to play with and we sings songs about the days of the week and how much Jesus loves us. Sometimes if I'm getting too tired or overwhelmed my teachers let me hang out with the little kids and take a little snooze. Some afternoons it feels like a long time before Momma gets there, but she ALWAYS comes back for me and she says she always will! (Boy she hugs hard when she gets there!)

When you are not at daycare...I mean Kollege...what are some favorite parts of your day with Momma?
   I like snuggle time in the morning, especially if I wake up before the sunshine does. Going on trips in the car is always fun. Bathtime at night is super relaxing. I know the sign for bathtime now and I latch on to the doorjam when we pass my bathroom to make sure Momma doesn't forget or go to the wrong room!  My favorite part though is after bathtime and before bedtime. Momma and I snuggle on the couch, drink some milk and watch a few minutes of Praise Baby. It's all our favorite songs from church being sung while animals and kids are playing on the TV. Momma says it is good for us both to stop & remember how good God is to us...and to drink our milk.

Do you have any plans for the next month?
     Between Kollege twice a week, and therapy appointments four times a week I'm pretty busy. I've been working really hard at timing my clapping solos at church  JUST as the music quiets down. I hope to get that perfected in the next month.  I'm really hoping I can walking down the hallway without help soon too. If I can get that down, Momma will have to put me at the neighbor's house in order to get 45seconds of computer work done! Mostly I want to figure out how to get inside the cabinets in the kitchen that Momma has locked. There has GOT to be a way!
 

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Eight Weeks Together

     It was a bit of a bi-polar week.  Seems I bearly survived the first half as Isaac went to daycare alone for the first time and I returned to work. I won't lie...I cried for three days and risked a speeding ticket racing to pick him up. I wouldn't have cared and probably asked the officer to hurry it up so I could get to my kid!  All my mommy-friends have called/texted to check to see how I am doing (let's be honest, Isaac was doing just fine), which is a wonderful show of support. They all say being away from your child never stops sucking, but somehow the hurt lessens. *Big sigh*  I've decided to re-invest in my efforts to marry a gazillionaire, hot glue Isaac to my side and never leave the house!
What Isaac does while I'm working from home.
Cracks me up!

Mom, quit bugging me. The Asian markets are about to close!
 


     The second half of the week (the half when we were home together) was heavenly. Lots of snuggles and loves and giggles and walks.  With a GORGEOUS, sunny Seattle fall, it truly couldn't have been any better. 
His FAVORITE place to be...in the exo-womb with the hoodie string in his mouth on a walk with mom.


If there is any wind, he THROWS his arms in the air and his head back and squeals wildly!!

65 degrees in Seattle in October!

I'd like to think he was contemplating the ocean between his two worlds, but honestly...I think he had just put a rock in his mouth.
 
     Isaac is growing so much that he is now able to pull himself up on just about anything and take off walking without a destination.  He looks a little bit like a semi trying to turn corners, but HUGE points for effort.  That he has gained the core strength to control his body is really a big deal. We are looking forward to showing off to the Occupational Therapist this week!  The downside is now changing & dressing Isaac is like wrestling a 22 pound bag of snakes. This kid wants to MOVE and GO and doesn't really matter where.  :)
Strong enough to sit on the horsey alone.
He couldn't do this 4 weeks ago!
Guess it's time to start putting the side rail up.
 
     This week we were also blessed with a photo session with Cassandra Hamilton Photography. Cassandra has been a HUGE supporter of our adoption process and I nearly fell over when I saw the sneak peak she sent us.  That she captured how much I love this boy is a treasure we will ALWAYS hold dear. (More photos to come in the coming weeks)